About
YOUR Best Hypnotist
In Town

Find him and he will
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He has his own practice, and also teaches hypnosis in affiliation with one of the Toronto schools of hypnosis.

After the session was over my client said to the hypnotist: “I didn’t understand anything your were telling me.”

One of the best hypnotists in town answered:

“That’s exactly how you are supposed to feel - I’ve been using on you a confusion technique of hypnosis.”

My client never went to see the “confusion technique” hypnotist again.

Her story inspired me to write this page of my Toronto Hypnosis Clinic website - a page, which I’ve always wanted to write, and somehow had never gotten to it.

I’ve always wanted to write a page entitled YOUR Best Hypnotist In Town because, there is so much confusion and lack of understanding out there, about what really makes up YOUR best hypnotist in town.

YOUR best hypnotist in town, first, learns who you really are

He dished out upon her, his preferential technique of hypnosis - which happened to be a confusion technique - most likely because, he really believes in its power, and capacity to create positive changes in human lives.

There is nothing wrong with the confusion technique of hypnosis. What is wrong - is trying to push it on someone who cannot benefit from such frame of reference.

YOUR best hypnotist in town will never attempt to box you into his most favorable technique because, he knows that, hypnosis is ultimately not about a technique, but about communicating with your subconscious mind.

Communication means COMMUNION.

It means that, you and the one who communicates with you are both connected.

YOUR best hypnotist in town is the hypnotist who can connect with you, before he even starts using various techniques of hypnosis.

Every hypnotist uses some form of technique.

There is no escape from technique in the “business” of hypnosis.

Even if YOUR best hypnotist in town will just sit quietly in front of you - as the famed Eckhart Tolle might do - and attempt to transfer upon you, in silence, his problem-dissolving vibe, he first must ascertain that, this particular approach is suitable for you.

In short - he first learns who you are, and depending on your own unique psychic make up, connects with you, in a way that makes you feel connected.

If at the end of your first session, you are leaving a hypnotist’s office, and do not feel that the two of you connected - that hypnotist is NOT YOUR best hypnotist in town.

It is relatively easy to find out whether the hypnotist you are thinking of visiting is YOUR best hypnotist in town, even before your initial visit.

The simplest way would be to visit his website and read what he says.

The content of his website is important, but an infinitely more important thing is, whether or not, you resonate with his message.

Everybody’s writing conveys the most profound truth about the author.

Tune into it, and the chances are, you will develop an inner feeling, which will tell you, whether or not, the hypnotist you are investigating is YOUR best hypnotist in town.

YOUR best hypnotist in town doesn’t “do” hypnosis - hypnosis happens spontaneously in his presence

What does it mean to follow intuition in the context of working with hypnosis?

It means that, as much as, a hypnotist must be able to communicate with your subconscious mind, he must be also able to communicate with his own subconscious mind.

He must be able to communicate with his subconscious mind, in a way that allows him to derive from it all the necessary guidance.

YOUR best hypnotist in town is subconsciously guided in his work.

He doesn’t have to struggle consciously with writing his hypnosis scripts, which he then pushes on his unsuspecting clients.

He doesn’t have to write any scripts.

He enters his sessions in full trust in the power of his subconscious mind, to guide him in the most efficient fashion.

He surrenders to his IN-SPIRA-TION.

To work in the state of inspiration means to work IN-THE-SPIRIT, rather than, from your own little - prone to erroneous assumptions - conscious mind.

YOUR best hypnotist in town knows that, he cannot really squeeze the necessary degree of creativity from the superficial, top layers, of his conscious mind.

He knows that, his psyche - just as your psyche too - resembles an iceberg.

Only a little, tiny part of that iceberg - the human conscious mind - is above the level of the water symbolizing the threshold of conscious awareness, below which, the immense 95% - or more - of everybody’s psychic live takes place.

Through his years of practice, YOUR best hypnotist in town, has learned to trust the SPIRIT of LIFE - who lives in the depths of human subconscious mind, and who from there guides all those who are ready and willing to listen.

The way in which YOUR best hypnotist in town works could be likened to the way in which the people succeed in sports.

The most successful of the sports figures are known to say thing like: “I didn’t play this game - the game played me”.

This phenomenon - when the Spirit of The Game takes over the limited conscious capabilities of the human mind - is known as being in the ZONE.

YOUR best hypnotist in town “plays” his “game of hypnosis” in the ZONE.

In other words, he surrenders to The Spirit of Hypnosis.

In my usage, the phrase - Spirit of Hypnosis - has to be understood as a particular “department” of the Universal Spirit of Life.

YOUR best hypnotist in town doesn’t play the game of hypnosis by his own limited power.

When he plays, SOMETHING bigger takes over the game.

Hence, he not only achieves great results, he also doesn’t have to worry about his results - knowing, that his results are not really “his”.

He knows whom to credit for the successes in his work and his life.

YOUR best hypnotist’s in town motivation is not commercially focused

He cannot stop his work simply because, he never works.

What he does is neither his work nor his hobby - not even his interest, as it is commonly understood.

YOUR best hypnotist in town never chose to work with hypnosis.

It was the UNIVERSAL SPIRIT, who chose to express ITSELF, through him, via the medium of hypnosis.

He only followed the HIGHER WILL for his life.

He will never attempt to sell you a package made of some number of sessions.

He will not do this because, he doesn’t know in how many sessions THE SPIRIT of LIFE wants to heal you via the medium of hypnosis.

He will also never attempt to seduce you into his office by an offer of a free ride.

He will never tell you - you will pay only when satisfied.

He knows that, any offer of guaranteed work in hypnosis, immediately HYPNOTIZES you into a “I HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE - HENCE, NOTHING TO GAIN” mindset.

He knows that, when you come for hypnosis, your subconscious attitude is worth at least 50% of your total success.

And because he knows this, he will never do anything to lower the level of your subconscious motivation.

Any offer of a “free ride” - in the context of hypnotic work - can be made only by a hypnotist who is either ignorant of what he does, or, who’s main aim is to seduce you into his office, rather than, ascertain that, you are going to enter your healing process at the peak level of your subconscious, motivational potential.

Another truth about YOUR best hypnotist in town is that, he is not commercially involved in either running, or supervising a clinic, in which he employs a bunch of other hypnotists to increase his profits.

YOUR best hypnotist in town has no time to be involved in running a business.

His mission and his calling, do not allow him to be distracted from what he does best.

He is an artist who works in the medium of human consciousness and not an employer of hypnotic workers.

YOUR best hypnotist in town will never make a joke of himself by telling you that, he can make sense out of hypnosis

What I am going to say here about making sense out of hypnosis, is going to be limited to the fact that, so far, nobody has ever been able to do so.

A worldwide renowned mentalist Kreskin, wrote a book entitled They Call it Hypnosis, in which he argues that there is no such thing as hypnosis.

He offered $100,000 to anyone who can prove to him that hypnosis really exists.

So far, nobody has won the prize!

Does that mean that there is no such thing as hypnosis?

I don’t think so...

It only proves that, nobody can define what hypnosis is - and that, is synonymous with our inability to MAKE SENSE OUT of IT.

We can use the mental phenomenon, which we call hypnosis - but we can never tell what that phenomenon really is.

Whoever says - he can make sense out of hypnosis - makes a joke out of himself, and definitely is not YOUR best hypnotist in town.

YOUR best hypnotist in town does not misrepresent what happens in a successful hypnosis session

The video, which I’ve watched could be named: A Ball Throwing Drama.

In it, a supposedly experienced hypnotist catches a ball, which someone from behind the camera throws at him, and says something like this:

“In a hypnosis session you have to do what I do with this ball - when you are offered a hypnotic suggestion, you have to catch it, or else, you are going to be disappointed.”

What he tells his potential clients is that, the results which they derive from their sessions depend on whether or not they accept the hypnotist’s suggestions.

The way he says it, puts the burden of failure on a client.

It renders a client responsible for the result of his or her hypnosis session.

The way I see it is that, YOUR best hypnotist in town offers you suggestions, which he knows you are going to accept, because he first learns, who you really are.

He is never going to throw a “ball” of a hypnotic suggestion at you, and expect you to “catch” it regardless of what the suggestion is.

He doesn’t place the responsibility for the success of his sessions into your hands.

Yes, you have to accept his suggestion - if you are to succeed in the session - but it is YOUR best hypnotist’s in town responsibility to formulate the suggestion he offers, in a way that you are most likely going to accept.

YOUR best hypnotist in town has the balls to say:

I’ve failed to offer you the suggestions, which you would be willing to accept - rather than, treat you to his ball throwing dramatizations, of what he mistakenly thinks, is supposed to happen in a successful session of hypnosis.

It is true that, there are people out there, who’s only business in life is on one hand, to keep on seeking help, and on another, to reject it regardless in what form it is offered.

Those people, however, represent a tiny fraction of those who seek help via hypnosis, and there is no point to create for them ball throwing drama productions.

In closing of this section, I want to add that, Milton H. Erickson - one of the greatest hypnotists of all times - used to say that, in a hypnosis session, a hypnotized person can experience the delight of learning passively, without exerting his or her personal effort.

Erickson never expected his clients to make and effort, to “catch” the “balls” of the suggestions, which he was “throwing” at them.

All that Erickson ever wanted of his clients was to remain totally passive throughout his sessions of hypnosis.

Whoever disagrees with Milton H. Erickson, on the matter of passivity versus activity of a client in a session of hypnosis, is not YOUR best hypnotist in town.

YOUR best hypnotist in town must have the necessary energy to perform his work in hypnosis

There was a category of his experiments, which involved him reading a written script to a hypnotized person, evoking particular effects, and then having somebody else read the same script, to the same person without any effects present.

This sort of experimentation confirms the truth that, for an effective hypnotist, it is not enough to say the right things to his clients.

He must say the right words with the necessary energy, if they are to produce a desired effect.

YOUR best hypnotist in town must have the necessary energy to perform his work.

His energy can be felt throughout his sessions.

Unless you can feel this energy during your sessions of hypnosis - the hypnotist, who is working with you, is not YOUR best hypnotist in town.

True - sometimes, just because you are not sensitive enough, you may feel NOTHING.

But even if you’ve felt nothing during your session of hypnosis, you must feel some effects of the session, after the session - if the session was a properly energized one.

A few more words about the necessity of rapport between you and YOUR best hypnotist in town

I remember one medical hypnotist of many years of experience, who’s office I visited shortly before he retired.

This supposedly greatly experienced professional, totally disregarded the reality, which I brought into his office.

During one of our hypnosis sessions, when I told him that I wanted to work with hypnosis, he gave me a lecture telling me that my role is to brings the “buns” home...

To his pushing on me the priority of bringing the “buns” home, I responded that, to live, in order to bring the “buns” home, was totally meaningless to me.

After my confession of the meaninglessness of the “buns” - he started shouting at me - telling me that I was going to be “arrogantly successful”.

This old medical doctor - a supposed master of hypnosis - failed me totally and completely.

He failed to develop a rapport with me, and totally disregarded the kind of reality, which I brought into his office.

In spite of his failure, I kept on coming to his sessions just to study how not to do hypnosis.

I’ve learned a lot of what not to do from him, even though he was definitely NOT my best hypnotist in town.

As it turned out, I was Not her best hypnotist in town...

She told me that, she came to see if I was her best hypnotist in town.

She basically wanted me to prove to her that I was the right hypnotist for her, and I spent the whole session trying to prove that I could actually help her through hypnosis.

After I spoke for an hour, about how I could possibly help her, she handed me her cheque and said that, she didn’t think I was the right hypnotist for her.

At that time, I was still relatively inexperienced, and could not comprehend what went wrong.

Today, I know that, nothing went wrong!

Today, I know that, I simply was not her best hypnotist in town.

Our energies were not able to enter into a dance.

There was no possibility of rapport between the two of us.

It was a great lesson for me.

And a rather humbling one.

Today, as the result of my many years of experience, I don’t expect to be everybody’s best hypnotist in town.

I know that I WILL BE the best, for some of my clients, and that I WILL NOT BE the best for some others.

Fortunately for me, the ones for whom I turned out to be their best hypnotist in town, represent an overwhelming majority of cases.

And that is more than good-enough for me...

I am totally O.K. with the fact that, I simply CAN’T BE everybody’s best hypnotist in town.

Neither I can, nor any other hypnotist can enter the state of necessary rapport with every client.

Knowing that, even the great Milton H. Erickson couldn’t do that - I remain at peace and worry free, with respect to whatever arises in any given session of hypnosis.

Again, the most important factor in hypnosis is RAPPORT.

Rapport means connection.

When rapport is present - in the session of hypnosis - the sky is the limit.

On the other hand, without rapport nothing is really possible.

I’ve written this page of my Toronto Hypnosis Clinic website to make you aware of, what you must look for, when contemplating your engagement with a hypnotist.

I’ve spoken from experience of many years of practice, and many engagements with various hypnotists in town.

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